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A Lesson on Life From A World Class Wrestler

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A Lesson on Life From A World Class Wrestler

A Lesson on life that I took from a world-class wrestler taught me it’s time to stop fighting what makes us unique.

I recently watched a wonderful TED talk from a professional wrestler whose confidence was shattered after the death of his biggest fan, his father. I saw many similarities between the wrestler, Mike Kinney, and most of us as business owners.

In his talk, he shares the point that it was only when he truly embraced the things that made him unique that he found the confidence he needed to be successful in the crazy world of professional wrestling in the USA. This meant putting aside all of his preconceived ideas about what he thought others wanted him to be, specifically trying to fit some kind of mould that would never let him be his true self. That takes courage.

All too often in business, we put forward a persona that we think is what people want us to be or expect us to be.

I tried to put forward a persona for years (many, many years). But one day, I got a little exhausted of trying to be who I thought everyone else wanted me to be, and I accepted myself, with all my perfect faults and failings and embraced exactly who I am.

Interesting things started to happen.

I often say I became a really good presenter when I stopped trying to be one. Now that didn’t mean I cared less, in fact, it meant the complete opposite.

When I stopped trying to be a good presenter, I cared more, but I cared about what was important. To me, that was looking around the room and seeing countless faces desperately looking for answers, help, support, encouragement – anything. And I could give them that.

I wanted so badly to give them the answers they were looking for. To the point where it became irrelevant how much my ego needed to be fed, by people coming up to me telling me how great a speaker I was, and the thing that became important was helping those people who needed it.

This has spilt into every part of my life.

I probably don’t dress quite as sharply as I did, I probably don’t have as much attention to detail when I’m writing things, I definitely can’t hide it when I don’t want to do something, and I simply can’t help myself when I feel I need to call someone on something when I think they are being less than honest. But I don’t do any of this in an arrogant way (well I hope I don’t). I do it in a very genuine, honest and loving way because I have a confidence that comes from finally accepting myself.

By now, you might be wondering where I’m going with this?

To put it simply, I’ve realised that to be successful in business, to be successful all parts of my life, it only ever really happens when I fully embrace all of my good bits, as much as the bits that are still a work in progress. And when I work to my strengths and put all of this together to help people however I can, every part of my life has become better.

This lesson on life is powerful and clear.

My point is simple, yet incredibly hard. Embrace who you are. By all means, keep becoming the best version of yourself that you possibly can, but that doesn’t mean you are broken in any way.

People react in an incredible way to true authenticity – because it’s kind of rare. Good luck, it’s not easy, but this lesson on life can be extraordinary if you let you are brave enough to try.

Originally posted on inc.com

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