Andrew and Bree discuss candidly how important it is not to be beating yourself up…
What You Can Learn From That Person Who Drives You Crazy
Is there someone you work with who drives you crazy?
It might be a client or a colleague. Either way, they are in your experience to help you identify something that sits in your energy system that is not helpful to you.
“It might even be really damaging your business.”
So, what can you do about it? One thing is for sure. Do not do nothing! You can’t just let it fester. I guarantee it will just get worse.
I want to show you how you can turn this situation around to your advantage. This person is in your experience because you have something to learn from them. If you don’t learn from them, don’t worry the lesson will just get bigger and bigger until you take notice and do something about it.
What you can do is identify who this person reminds you of.
Firstly, get in touch with the feeling that you have when this person is in your presence; especially when they are really getting under your skin. One way to do this is to ask yourself who or what this reminds you of? Who else in your life has caused you to feel like this? Another way to do this is, you can close your eyes and feel the feeling your colleague engenders in you and then ask yourself how old you feel?
Either way, you will probably identify a person or event that has caused you distress in the past. Now you have this important information you need to find a way to let go of this past hurt.
I use two amazing clearing techniques with my clients. One you can do for yourself. This is called Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT). The other technique is called Matrix Reimprinting. This is more complex, and you need to work with a skilled practitioner. Both tools are incredibly effective. It is the first time, as a practitioner, that I have felt completely confident that I can help clients move from a place of misery to happiness, using these amazing healing tools.
In the past, it was helpful for clients to have insight into why they felt the way they did, but now they can actually be completely clear of the problem. It is beautiful to watch when my clients feel free from this hurt from the past. They get a different perspective on the situation and have a different belief about themselves.
Using Matrix Reimprinting, we go through a process of not just healing the hurt, but also reimprinting the event so that they see it from a different point of view. Now they are able to let go of the limiting belief completely and understand that it was just a perception formed by a child under difficult circumstances. This change allows them the freedom to move on into living the life of their dreams.
If you feel you are struggling, holding yourself stuck in an uncomfortable place, let’s see what needs to be done to get you on the road to your happy place in every area of your life. I’d love to hear from you in the comments below.
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